It has been a while since I blogged on here, as I have been bloggin on myspace, just some small random musings... nothing special. I decided I better find my way back over here for the good stuff. ;)
I posted a few weeks ago on my myspace blog that it's all in the little things. Zac left me a sweet note and it was just a small gesture, but the thought behind it had a huge impact. Sunday afternoon we had lunch at his parent's house. After we left, we went grocery shopping. We were getting the items for lasagna and were debating on the sauce... I am so used to having to get traditional or extra meat that I somehow have lost my sauce preference in my mind. He started naming off sauces, I agreed to each one, then he asked about the chunky mushroom sauce! Success!!! I had forgot that even existed. Then he went even further and asked if I wanted a jar of mushrooms to add to the sauce. Oh my goodness!! Where did he come from? This is sooooo my idea guy as far as the spaghetti sauce goes. lol I realize we should have probably made our own, but this is a new relationship afterall and it has been a long time since I made homemade spaghetti sauce. At this point, I just hope the lasagna turns out to be edible. Now, Robert said that Zac is a lucky man because I am making my lasagna for him and he gets to eat my cooking. He also said he will definitely fall in love with me now... way to go on the nerves there Rob! I know you meant well, but dude... the pressure! I do make good lasagna, however the last two times I made it, it was not my favorite. We shall see. It is made and looks delicious, not sure how it tastes though. Brownies are in the oven now. They smell divine! So it's kind of weird, because I thought Robert and I were a lot alike in a lot of ways. However, I now see that we aren't so much a like at all. I think we were a like because we had been together for so long. Zac and I are a lot a like just because we really are. Robert and I did NOT agree on veggies. Zac and I do. I know that might be small and stupid, but when you have alter your preferences to accomodate someone else, you lose sight of things that you really like. That goes for more than just mushroom and onions and even farther than spaghetti sauce. You think something that small would not be a big deal, but it's those small things that add up over time that turn molehills into mountains. This stuff is right there along with religious beliefs in my book now. lol All of this should have been taken into consideration before marraige, but you don't think about that stuff. It's like buying a house. The first time you buy you think you know what you want. Then after a while, you realize what you thought you wanted isn't exactly what you need and really wasn't what you wanted either. I'm not saying mushrooms and onions or the lack thereof ruined my marriage, the problems were way more complicated than that. I'm just saying it's good to be in agreement totally for once... without having to compromise.